What is right (Shreyas) / one's heart (Preyas)

 The choice between following one's heart (Preyas) or doing what is right (Shreyas) is a pivotal decision that shapes one's life journey. Preyas or emotional choices feel immensely appealing and loving in the moment but often lack foresight into their long term consequences, sacrificing quality and pragmatism for immediate gratification.

Shreyas or prudent decisions, on the other hand, consider the bigger picture by evaluating relevant parameters like socioeconomic status, financial freedom, time constraints, relationships and reason before choosing a path. Though they may not thrill the heart as much as Preyas, Shreyas decisions stand the test of time by ensuring longevity, stability and the ability to withstand life's challenges.

Making Shreyas choices requires courage as it means abandoning desire-fulfilling Preyas options for the sake of securing a meaningful and purposeful future, even if it means compromising on joy and pleasure in the present. Ultimately, it is a question of whether one prefers short-lived bliss orlong-lasting happiness, and whether one is willing to accept hard truths over comforting illusions.

Choosing Shreyas over Preyas provides the fortitude and discernment to navigate life's complexities, even if it does not always lead to the easiest or most loved road. It results in a life of graceful ease, wisdom and wisdom-infused ease rather than one plagued by regret. Preyas, on the other hand, may bring moments of radiant joy but at the cost of overall flourishing and well-being.

As Lord Krishna counselled Arjuna in the Bhagavadgita, one must pursue dharma or righteousness over desire. One has to follow the path of Shreyas, not Preyas, for a life led by purpose and meaning rather than impulse. Within each of us resides the ability to discern Shreyas from Preyas; we just have to develop the courage and conviction to choose accordingly. When we do, life becomes profoundly simple, successful and sublime.

In essence, effective decision making that shapes a life of significance relies on the wisdom to prefer Shreyas over Preyas whenever a choice must be made.